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The Plastic Ring Romp
I walked into my local card store the other day only to be met by a wall of blingy fake engagement rings. What on earth are they doing selling fake engagement rings? Yes, David almost proposed to me with a tacky fake engagement ring - for more hilarity, and to let me pick the real ring myself - but surely the fake engagement ring can't be a common proposal strategy? Or maybe America is more hilarious then I thought? Anyway. Of course the first thing that flashed across my mind was "I must try one on, immediately."

So, there I was, in the card store, slipping a fake engagement ring the size of a small softball on my hand. "AHHH!" I said (perhaps a little loudly) and the sales lady whipped around, eyebrows raised. "Oh," I said, giggling apologetically, "It's just that these rings are crazy funny! I mean look at the size? Silly, right?"

Judging from her reaction, I'm guessing that the rings are not humorous.
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Quite a number of people have sent me the New York Times article last week about the new breed of demanding brides – brides that demand botox, teeth whitening, and identical spray tans from their bridesmaids. Thank you all. It’s an interesting read. But, my response to this article might not be quite what everyone is expecting.

Here is the deal: I actually do not think that women are this crazy. Yes, yes, of course, there are some demanding Upper East Side women who demand botox of their bridesmaids, but for goodness sake, these people probably make their doormen walk their dogs. And as much as I love the New York Times, they know how to write shocking copy and to spin weird New York occurrences into trends taking the nation by storm. Everyone has a story about a bride who made all her bridesmaids wear horrible poofy orange dresses that cost a thousand dollars, and then screamed at them for the whole wedding – those women are out there. But there is something else that is out there too, and that is the ever-growing Bridezilla myth that stalks the land.
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I have lots of ideas for San Francisco weddings on a budget, and, well, I'm only having one wedding. So, it occurred to me that I could *share* my bright ideas, and then maybe, if I'm very lucky, someone will steal my idea, implement it beautifully, and then send me the pictures. Deal? Deal!

I have two ideas that I've been dreaming about. Both of them involve a small personal ceremony, a reception for 50-60 people, quite a bit of wine, and between $6,000-$7,000 dollars for the whole shebang (in San Francisco dollars, that's something of a steal).

Idea #1
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Wedding Polaroid Love

I got Jenifer Altman's book For The Love of Light: A Tribute To the Art of Polaroid today. It was such a wonderful bit of beauty flitting across my desk. Another delightful book from a talented blogger, hooray! Anyway, it's official, we have to have some Polaroids taken at the wedding (even though they are, sadly, about to disappear.)

Photo by Aubrey Trinnaman via {Frolic!}

We've had the idea for our wedding invitations since more or less the second that we got engaged (I will share more about them one day) and thanks to David's graphic design skills we've had them actually designed on paper for a month now. The thing is, the paper goods that we should have designed first were, um, the Save The Dates. So I'm starting to get cracking on ideas.

These two invitations using old family pictures and screen printing/ custom stamping have really captured my imagination.
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So, wedding season is upon us, and I know that lots and lots of readers are making a dash down the aisle this summer. Once you get back from your honeymoons, or just relax after all the excitement, I would love if you would consider submitting your wedding to be featured on this blog.

How do you know if your wedding is practical? Well, first off, if you read and enjoy this blog, it probably is. I have said it before, and I will say it again, there are no specific budget limitations that qualify you for having a practical wedding. Budgets are all relative, depending on where you live, how many guests you have, and what kind of resources you have, and the last thing I want is to give brides some other benchmark to live up to. Remember: the ideal* of a practical wedding is one that doesn't make you broke, and doesn't stress you out. Enough said.

To submit your wedding, email me (meg at apracticalwedding dot com):
  • 10-15(ish) pictures of your wedding
  • Your first names
  • Where your wedding was held
  • What made your wedding creative
  • What made your wedding thrifty (whatever that meant for you)
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