reclaiming wife
To Tie Or Not To Tie

God knows we all love Toybreaker/Cyberoptix TieLab, since they have the worlds hippest ties, but this new tie from their Winter/Spring Collection may solve the To-Wear-Or-Not-To-Wear-A-Tie debate once and for all.
Because you see, ceci n'est pas une cravate {this is not a tie}. Of course once you own the object, this moves from The Treachery of Images to absurdism. And we all need a little absurdism in a wedding.

Yes. You just saw what you think you saw. A Practical Wedding has moved from Voltaire to Magritte. But that's why you don't read The Knot.

19 comments

  1. Krista writes:

    And when wearing the tie, you must take a picture of a groom holding an apple in front of his face … :)

    Exactly!

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  2. Megan writes:

    Haha. Indeed, the literary and intellectual level are part of why I read this rather than the knot!

    Exactly!

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  3. Julia writes:

    ha, this post made me snort and laugh out loud (I refuse to write LOL). Definitely the reason I don’t read The Knot

    Exactly!

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  4. Cate Subrosa writes:

    Oh, Meg, je t’aime.

    Exactly!

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  5. Bride in Exile writes:

    Truly excellent. I echo Krista’s photograph idea!

    Exactly!

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  6. AnnC writes:

    I love Magritte so I definitly love this idea…

    Exactly!

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  7. Amanda writes:

    Smooches to Meglets.

    Exactly!

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  8. Kate writes:

    Whoa! I just purchased our ties from Toybreaker! Bethany (my contact there) was a real pleasure to work with. She customized the tie/ink colors for us and we received them in about a week. I highly recommend these guys if you are looking for unique ties for your wedding. Here are the ties we purchased:

    http://www.etsy.com/view_listing.php?listing_id=22377915

    Exactly!

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  9. east side bride writes:

    Do you think Bethany is secretly laughing at us bridey blogger types?

    Just wondering. She is *so cool*

    Exactly!

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  10. LPC writes:

    Laughing out loud AND clapping my hands at the kitchen counter. Double whammy. A deconstructed wedding. What would Levi-Strauss say? M. Foucault? And anyone who would laugh at bridey blogger types would be, de facto, not cool at all. Says me. Weddings are mythic, are they not? Deconstruct a myth all you want but its power sticks around.

    Exactly!

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  11. elizabeth writes:

    So great! Magritte and Voltaire in one post! To extend the conceit, maybe you could have a big sign at the front of… wherever you’re getting married that says ‘this is not a wedding.’ :)

    Exactly!

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  12. Marie-Ève writes:

    Meg and fellow commenters, I really wanted to take this opportunity to say how much I think you all rock. Definitely why I don’t read the Knot, could not have said it better myself. Thanks for reminding me that you can plan a wedding AND still have a brain for other things as well.

    Exactly!

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  13. kippahandcollar writes:

    This is the BEST wedding blog post I have ever, ever seen.

    Exactly!

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  14. Bridechka writes:

    Yep, I am a fan of the highly intellectual references … and the cool ties!

    Exactly!

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  15. toybreaker writes:

    You guys are the sweetest ever – (I’m not laughing at all, I’m so super appreciative of all the lovely things people say online) and I totally want to do the apple shoot! ;)

    Thanks so much for all the kind words and support, I just wanted to make sure y’all know that any design can happen in any colorway for wedding orders, you aren’t limited to just what you see. Here’s a gallery of some of my custom work:

    http://www.flickr.com/photos/toybreaker/sets/72157606792849770/

    Again, many thanks, as someone who is engaged herself, I’m horrified by most of what I see out there from the “industry” bleh! I hope to be able to make something a little different and enjoyable for people. :)

    xox
    Bethany

    Exactly!

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  16. Mary writes:

    Oh, that is too awesome.

    Exactly!

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  17. amy writes:

    oh my god. thank you. first of all, aweseome post & yes, this is exactly why we come here every day! second, we know have a tie for my sweetie. perfect – he loves art, magritte and absolute absurdism. you rock my world meg. *and bethany!

    Exactly!

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  18. Kathryn writes:

    Thank you Meg – you make me smile! :)

    Exactly!

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  19. This tie is so great! Way to put smile on someone’s face! :)

    Exactly!

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