reclaiming wife

Reading the comments on the last post, and being amused by the people who think *I* am ambivalent about marriage (Um. Not ambivalent. Opinionated. See this blog.)

Anyway, I was reminded of a conversation I had with an old friend when we got engaged.

Me: David and I got engaged! Yayyyyy!!!
Her: Oh. That's nice. I don't believe in marriage.
Me: ..........
Me: Um. It's not fairies. You don't have to DO it, but it does exist.

25 comments

  1. *Michelle writes:

    Wow!! I love total misinformed interpretation (ergo you must be anti-marriage because of your last post)! It just makes me laugh. But I loooove your response to your friend!!! I've had similar things said to me and I never came up with anything quite that quick witted in response. Bravo! (ok – my ! privileges are being revoked…)

    Exactly!

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  2. amber8184 writes:

    haha. your response to "I don't believe in marriage" is the same as mine to "I don't believe in divorce." :P

    2 people said "Exactly!"

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  3. Bookbag writes:

    "It's not fairies." Amazing!

    1 person said "Exactly!"

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  4. kc writes:

    I think we must have a friend in common! Except my dear friend continues to remind me that "most marriages end in divorce."

    She went through a divorce when she was 26. I try to tell myself to be compassionate when I really want to throw a fit.

    Also, fairies. Great response.

    Exactly!

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  5. Meg writes:

    @Amber
    Indeed. That too. That's another post.

    Exactly!

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  6. Alice writes:

    I love you Meg!

    And the only way someone could possibly believe you are not 100% in favour of weddings is if that was the only post of your's they'd read. : )

    Exactly!

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  7. Ashley Serena writes:

    Sadness. But great response on your part! :)

    Exactly!

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  8. Noelley B writes:

    I didn't believe in marriage, either, until I found the person I would marry.

    2 people said "Exactly!"

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  9. Cat writes:

    She knows that every time she says that a wedding planner loses her wings, right?

    3 people said "Exactly!"

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  10. kahlia writes:

    "It's not fairies." That's awesome.

    @Cat, "every time she says that a wedding planner loses her wings". Also awesome.

    You guys (gals) crack me up, thanks for the smile!

    Exactly!

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  11. Liz writes:

    seriously.

    …are you ambivalent about ANYTHING?

    Exactly!

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  12. Vee writes:

    Funniest response ever. Love it! =)

    Exactly!

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  13. Meg writes:

    @Liz
    Noooo….

    Exactly!

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  14. Jessica writes:

    rad. I love diarrhea of the mouth that seems to run rampant with our nearest & dearest when we bring up our upcoming marriage…. People just can't help themselves…. Good thing both my fiance & I believe in marriage. WHEW! :)

    Exactly!

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  15. F. Fiori writes:

    clap clap clap clap clap clap clap

    Exactly!

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  16. FK writes:

    lol!

    Exactly!

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  17. Cate Subrosa writes:

    Ha ha, genius Meg. And ha ha, Liz :)

    Exactly!

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  18. Jen Inglis writes:

    Right. So with you. My MOTHER, when called to tell her about the upcoming nuptuals, said "I'm not really in to marriage."

    WTF? Great for you, mum, but how about "congrats" first, at least?

    Jeezh. And then she went out and did some vintage digging for us. Weird.

    Exactly!

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  19. Luis writes:

    Living in San Francisco of all places, you should know we do exist. Way to go Meg, your comment killed a fairy.

    1 person said "Exactly!"

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  20. Giggles writes:

    Yeah!! Best response ever!

    Exactly!

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  21. happynappybride writes:

    That's funny.

    Exactly!

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  22. Celia writes:

    you're pretty much fucking awesome, meg.
    :)

    Exactly!

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  23. Amanda writes:

    CLAP YOUR HANDS RIGHTTHISMINUTE AND SAY "I BELIEVE IN FAIRIES."

    Exactly!

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  24. screw debbie downers. they're just jelly.

    Exactly!

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  25. laurabalaurah writes:

    Haaaah! Just found this and it so reminded me of my buddy’s response to our engagement (friends of hers- separately and together- for five years): “Oh. That’s just so traditional of you.”

    I said, “well, we didn’t say that we were going to do it very traditionally. Do you remember who we are?”

    Exactly!

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