reclaiming wife

As of today, I’m officially, publicly, mostly, on maternity leave. In reality, Maddie has been more or less in charge of APW for the last week, and I’ve been puttering around behind the scenes tidying things up. Last week, our Doula asked us how me “resting” was going. David said, “Well, I think today was her first day of maternity leave, and she worked for nine hours.” I gave the obvious response, which was, “Now that I’m not in charge, I have so much time to get things done! Plus, working is so much more relaxing than sitting around.” True, y’all.

As the APW team makes the transition, it seemed like a fitting time to announce a few (excellent) changes.

First up, Maddie has been promoted to Managing Editor of APW. Three cheers for Maddie! She’s done more and more work, and she has contributed in huge ways to APW over the past year. So her taking the reins for maternity leave seemed like the perfect time to officially promote her. Also, during wedding season, she’s done a phenomenal job of running her own business and making APW tick, and she’s slept a frighteningly small amount (frightening to me, because I really like sleep).

Which brings me to the fact that I’m thrilled to introduce our Editorial Assistant for the duration of maternity leave, Emily Threlkeld. Longtime readers will know Emily from her New Orleans Elopement, her essay on faith, proof, and the immigration process, Confessions of A Bridal Registry Consultant, and her crazy, ballsy, non-anonymous essay How I very Nearly Almost Cheated On My Husband. She’s also quoted in the APW book. I think what I mostly want to say about Emily joining the APW staff is that she’s a reminder to me that you make your own luck (something her husband told her on their wedding day). Unbeknownst to me, Emily put a post-it on her bathroom mirror saying that she wanted to work for APW. (Maybe after the Atlanta book talk where I claimed that was the way I reminded myself of all my most important goals?) But then there were the other things she did, like write lots of amazing things for the site and get to know the staff; drive for seven hours to meet Maddie and me at the Atlanta book event; send me her résumé after said event; and then in May send me an email outlining why I should hire her and what exactly she could bring to the team. Fast-forward to this month, when I realized we needed to hire someone to help Maddie for maternity leave, and I didn’t have time for a full-scale search, and I said, “SELF! Hire Emily! She is great!” And so we did. That, my friends, is a woman who makes her own luck.

And with that, my friends, I’m out. (At least mostly. For now). See you on the other side.

Photos from the Atlanta Book Talk by Leah and Mark (APW Sponsors): Me with Leah and Mark’s baby, That’s Emily right in the front!, Me

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30 comments

  1. Sam writes:

    May the baby-having go well, and the sleep not be too scarce!
    Can’t wait to hear back from the other side…
    xxx

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  2. Jashshea writes:

    Best of luck, Meg & David!

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  3. Mary writes:

    Best of luck to both you and David!

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  4. Granola writes:

    Congrats Meg! To you and David and yet-unmet baby.

    And way to go Maddie and Emily!!!

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  5. Alison writes:

    I hope that you do get to do some actual resting pre-baby-arrival! Sending lots of love your way!

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  6. carrie writes:

    All the best to you and David!

    And congrats, Maddie and Emily!

    So much awesome, the exclamation points cannot be contained!

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  7. rachel writes:

    Happy maternity leave! May baby come swiftly and safely, and I wish you many wonderful snuggles :)

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  8. Stalking Sarah writes:

    Fist bump to you!

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  9. Alexandra writes:

    Have a good maternity leave! I’m sure we’ll miss you!

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  10. Congrats Maddie and Emily…and, Meg, thanks for leaving us in very capable, enthusiastic hands! Best wishes for your maternity leave!

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  11. KB writes:

    So many good thoughts headed multiple ways with this post :-) Hooray!!

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  12. Diane writes:

    As I told a (very confused) shoe salesman when I was two years old, it takes a lot of work to push a baby out of your uterus! So consider this a “hard work” fist bump…

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  13. Kandise writes:

    Happy baby-having!

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  14. Shotgun Shirley writes:

    Good luck, and many many fist bumps of solidarity.

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  15. Edelweiss writes:

    Best of luck to everyone in their new adventures!

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  16. LeahAndMark writes:

    Yay! Happy Maternity Leave! Congrats to Maddie and Emily! BabyRoX says you are going to be an amazing mom, and he’s happy to come play with you and your kidlet at future book talks.

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  17. Molly writes:

    Good luck, Meg! You’re going to be a fabulous mama. Sending lots of love to you, David and Practical Baby. xoxo

    And yay Maddie and Emily!

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  18. Peabody_Bites writes:

    Congrats Maddie on a well deserved promotion and Emily on your hard-core star hauling. Meg – fistbumps, luck and love. Thank you for taking us all along on your journey, and nudging us a little further along our own. Can’t wait to hear about the view from the other side. All best to you, to David and to [APB].

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  19. Amy Elizabeth writes:

    Meg, SO EXCITED FOR YOU!!!!!! Yaaaaaaaay!

    Happy Promotion Maddie!

    Welcome Emily!

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  20. Marcie writes:

    Good luck!!

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  21. Genevieve writes:

    Best wishes to you and your family, Meg!

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  22. Sheryl writes:

    Here’s wishing you a safe delivery, Meg, and a wonderful maternity leave. I hope the next bit of becoming a parent is easier on you than the pregnancy has been.

    And huge congratulations to Maddie and Emily!!

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  23. Stacey writes:

    Love & luck & a joyful and safe birth to you!

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  24. Class of 1980 writes:

    Congratulations Maddie. Welcome Emily.

    Meg, take care of yourself and bebe.

    We’ll see you on the other side. Very excited about the new earthling!!!

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  25. I wish you well:)

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  26. Bethany writes:

    Enjoy! Excited for the arrival of your baby! I’ve loved being a mom of twin boys (3 mo old now) surprisingly much!

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  27. Addie writes:

    Best wishes to you and David!!! Rest, get a massage, and wait for the newest adventure to begin!

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  28. Alyssa writes:

    YAY MATERNITY LEAVE!!!

    And also, YAY EMILY!!! She is one of my favorite contributors, her elopement story is in my top ten favorite on the site. (And considering how many Wedding Grads I’ve read, YOU ARE IN RAREFIED COMPANY, MISSY!!!)

    Sorry, I’m apparently yell-y today. But also super excited!!! Hugs all around!

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  29. Margaret writes:

    Hiring Emily will be one of the best decisions of your life. I can guarantee it. Congratulations, Emmy, you deserve this because you worked hard for it <3

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