One of the APW staff’s goals for 2013, is to start a conversation about current events and interesting articles on the site. The APW community is so intensely smart and insightful, that we wanted a place to discuss some of the bigger conversations happening around weddings and marriage. Today we’re kicking it off discussing a recent article in New York Magazine on the role of divorce in the fight for marriage equality. On Saturday, we’ll be trying out a new feature—Saturday Link Roundups—where we link to interesting articles around the web. Let’s do this.
One of the things that the marriage equality fight has exploded into my consciousness is the idea that Divorce isn’t that-thing-you-hope-never-
Divorce, one lawyer tells me, “provides a forum with rules and guidelines to keep people from giving in to their very worst impulses.” For gay couples, though, the Byzantine chaos of current law can yield grotesque results. The problems arise from two main sources: differences among the states in their laws concerning gay relationships, and differences between the states and the federal government, thanks to the Defense of Marriage Act, in their treatment of taxes, pensions, inheritance, and other transfers that may figure in settlements. You needn’t be a “marriage tourist”—one of the many couples who trekked from jurisdiction to jurisdiction to wed repeatedly as marriage became legal in each—to get caught in the flypaper.
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