Summer is my favorite season. Partially because, well, that’s when my birthday is, but also because when I was a kid, summer represented the high point of the year. July was the like the mountaintop, the edge of the first hill on a roller coaster, where anything was possible and you could see everything clearly. This July, we want to talk more about that balance—about walking the beam, finding equilibrium on the teeter-totter, discovering the sweet spot between two points of tension. We can’t stay there forever, but when we make it, it’s glorious, for a few shining moments. So this month, tell us your tales of falling, of searching, of finding. Send us your moments of grace.
A quick reminder of how to submit your essay or wedding to APW:
Essays: If you want to submit an essay for next month’s theme, or anything else for that matter, you can do so right here.
Real Weddings: You can always send us your weddings (on theme, or not). For those of you who are new here, we accept real weddings in one of three formats, all sourced from readers:
HOW WE DID IT: Let’s be real: it’s the logistical and financial aspects of how other people planned their weddings that you really want to dig your teeth into. Go here to fill out our How We Did It submission and tell us all the gory details.
Wedding Graduates: If you’ve got a story to tell about your wedding (like about how you planned with an emotionally absent parent, or how you actually kind of hated your wedding), head over here and submit a wedding graduate post. The focus here is on your words, but we like to back them up with you looking hot in your pictures. (You look hot in your pictures.)
Wordless Wedding: This feature is for when you don’t have a lot to say about your wedding, but maybe you think it needs to be shared anyway. Wordless weddings are short on words, big on pictures, and chock full of awesome. Submit your Wordless Wedding right here.
As always, here are the tips and tricks for submitting your story to APW and getting it published:
- While we don’t exactly have any requirements for post length, essays between 600–1800 words are usually the ones that make it to the front page. Exceptions are always made, so don’t let those numbers keep you from writing what you need to write. If something is too long or too short, but we love the concept, we’ll help you edit it into something we can publish.
- One of the primary characteristics we look for in submissions each month is a connection to a universal idea. We’re all writing from our personal experiences here, but if you can take that experience and make it something that other people are going to relate to, then we’ve got magic. But that doesn’t mean every post needs to have a big moral or overarching theme. Sometimes the most universal stories are the simplest ones.
- As always, our themes are meant to serve as a guideline for submissions, but they aren’t rigid. Do with them what you will! For example, if next month’s theme is “Balance,” but you really need to talk about how you didn’t exactly love your wedding (for example), then we want to hear what you have to say. We’re always after diversity of experience, so the most important thing is that you write something that is authentic to you (particularly if it’s a perspective we haven’t heard from in a while or at all).
- Also, when you’re submitting for the monthly theme, we don’t want you to feel as though you have to frame your story around the theme itself (i.e., “I experienced balance when …”). Heck, you don’t even have to include the name of the theme in your writing at all. Just write what you would normally write, and we’ll figure out if it’s a good fit for the month, or if maybe it would be a better fit for a future month.
- Lastly, if you have something you just have to get out there into the world, but it doesn’t fit with the theme for the next month, please send it in anyway. Our top priority is always strong content, regardless of the topic.
That’s it! If you have a story to share about what you’ve learned, send it in already!