“How We Did It” is the post you wish you had when you were wedding planning; a breakdown of how you made this thing work, logistically and financially. So tell us how, exactly, you pulled off that rooftop pizza party in Brooklyn for $15,000. Or art gallery wedding in Maine for $5,000. Or San Francisco City Hall wedding for $200,000 (there’s no budget shaming here, in either direction.) Because let’s be honest, that’s what everybody’s really after.

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