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Five MarriagesOn Monday, we announced the two events that APW and Lowe House Events are throwing in New York City on August 25th. During the first of these events, we’ll be facilitating five marriages to celebrate New York’s recent passage of same sex marriages. The (legal!) weddings will take place on a terrace overlooking the city. We’ll also be hosting a cake & punch & bubbly reception indoors, throughout the day. We’ll provide each couple with flowers, an officiant, invitations, a guest list of up to 15(ish) people, and a photographer. Needless to say, it will be excellent.

So! Today we’re officially opening applications. If you and your partner would like us to help you get legally hitched, please apply here. And get the word out! If you know someone this is perfect for, by all means send them this link. And feel free to Facebook it, or Twitter it, or post about it. Team Practical, let’s do this thing!

Applications will be open for a week! And as much as we want to marry everyone, we’re going to do our best to select five people who are a brilliant fit for these events. We can’t wait to meet you!

Art designed and donated by And Kathleen of Jeremy and Kathleen

It’s Wednesday, which is the day we’re going to give you updates on Yay New York. We figure that will make summer Wednesdays stuck behind a desk a little more fun. So let’s do this thing.

First off, we’re delighted to announce that DJ Whitney Day will be making us dance our faces off at Yay New York. Whitney is a young up and coming DJ, with a degree in philosophy (perfect), who works at blurring the lines between the LGBTQ scene and the straight scene (even better). After yesterdays talk of going dancing, those of you coming to the Mass Reception for Marriage Equality should be primed and ready for this awesomeness.

Next up: the party will be held in at 320 Studios, a beautiful loft space in Manhattan’s fashion district. There will be booze, excellent decorations, and the best community in the world (if you ask me…)

During the day, the weddings will be held on a beautiful terrace with a a view of the city and the river, with a small reception for family and friends inside.

Here are dates that you need to know:

  • Next Wednesday, July 27: tickets for Yay New York (party and LAMBDA Legal fundraiser) go on sale. You’re going to be there, right New Yorkers? Me too! (Eee!)
  • Wednesday August 3: Yay New York Tote Bags go on sale. Buy one to support the party, buy one as a secret APW handshake, by one because they are super stylish (designed by And Kathleen).
  • Weekend of August 20th & 21st: Regional fundraising parties, APW book club style. Y’all made it clear that you wanted to be involved with Yay New York, no matter where you were located, so we’re making it happen. Our own Cindy is taking charge of organizing regional parties. If you’d like to help in your area, read more about it over here. We’ll be announcing details here, as the parties are planned.

I’m perpetually in awe of what this community can do, and I can’t wait to see all of this unfold over the next month. Here is to you, Team Practical! Here we go.

** Tickets for Yay New York, APW’s Mass Reception for Marriage Equality, will be going on sale at 9:30 AM, PST today. So check back to buy tickets!**


Two weeks ago, we opened applications for couples to apply to legally wed with us on August 25th, followed by the Yay New York party. Over the last few weeks, we’ve decided to re-tool the event in keeping with the APW philosophy that less is almost always more. So instead of doing five quick civil services, we’ve decided to do two fabulous weddings. Each couple will have up to thirty guests, their own private reception, and then be honored by Team Practical, dancing like crazy, at a party that night. So without further ado, I’m delighted to introduce you to the two couples.

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Leanne Anne

{Leanne & Anne}

Our first couple is APW reader and So You’re EngGAYged blogger Leanne and her partner Anne (read her post about navigating the wedding industry as a non-traditional couple here; it’s a doozy). In some sort of magically synergy, Leanne and Anne are getting married on Sunday, September 25th, in Philadelphia, exactly one month after Yay New York. So one month before the celebration, they’ll be getting married legally married with us, a handful of loved ones, and piles of kindred spirits celebrating in their honor. Here is more about them:

Anne is from the eastern shore of Maryland and Leanne is from the Jersey shore, but we both call Philadelphia home. In December of 2005, we met online, had a spectacular first date, and the rest is history! We have been building our relationship for the past five years and have been engaged for about six months. When we are not busy at work (Anne is a surgical nurse and Leanne is a pediatric psychologist), we can be found relaxing on the roof deck at our new home, chatting over a good meal and a glass of wine, geeking out with NPR, or at a concert listening to our favorite music. We are getting married in front of 150 friends and family at the end of September, and so we are thrilled to make it legal next month in New York. Yay NY!

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{Cory & Aaron}

The second couple is Cory and Aaron, and this will be their one and only wedding. Saying we’re honored to be a part of it is a little bit of an understatement. When they applied, Aaron told me, “Now, in our third year together we’ve moved to Chicago for new jobs, and about two months ago I proposed to Cory. We’ve been debating where to have our marriage, but even here in Chicago they don’t say the word ‘Marriage,’ which makes us cry a little bit. After hearing the news about New York, we’ve talked about going there. Cory and I both agree small weddings are best to make them more meaningful to us. You don’t need 100 people, just family and close friends to cheer you on as you tie the knot.” So on August 25th, Cory and Aaron will be tying the knot with a close band of loved ones, on a terrace in midtown Manhattan. Tying the legal knot, may I add. Here is more about them:

Cory and Aaron are a geeky couple with skills and hobbies in computers and technology.  That’s also how they met, via an online site built with a programming language they were both interested in learning.  It was love at first date and three years later, Aaron proposed to Cory, leaving him speechless.  Aaron is the one with red hair and matching shirt on the right.

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We can’t wait to celebrate with Leanne & Anne and Cory & Aaron (and you!) in just one month. Jane Austen may have put it best when she said:

“The wedding was very much like other weddings, where the parties have no taste for finery or parade, and Mrs. Elton, from the particulars detailed by her husband thought it all extremely shabby, and very inferior to her own. ‘Very little white satin, very few lace veils; a most pitiful business.’ But, in spite of these deficiencies, the wishes, the hopes, the predictions, the confidences of the small band of true friends who witnessed the ceremony were fully answered in the perfect happiness of the union.” – Jane Austen, Emma

Here is to Leanne & Anne and Cory & Aaron! We’re so honored to witness your legal union. We will be spending the next month making this the most fabulous pair of small weddings we can possibly throw. Now Team Practical, can I have a cheer?

The big day is here! Tickets are on sale for Yay New York: APW & Lowe House Events Mass Reception to Celebrate Marriage Equality. Here is the scoop:

  • Tickets are $20 (this money will go to help pay for the party), and we’re strongly suggesting a $40 tax deductible donation to LAMBDA Legal at the door, so make sure you bring your wallet!!
  • We will have limited edition tote bags (which are different from the regular edition tote bags going on sale next week) for sale at the event for $20 and limited edition posters available for $10.
  • The party will include guest appearances from the recently married couples, dancing-your-face-off courtesy of DJ Whitney Day, an open bar, and damn good company.
  • The party will take place on August 25th, from 8:00 PM to 12:00 AM, at 320 Studios in Manhattan.
  • We can’t wait to see you there.
  • There are 200 tickets available, and I suspect they are going to get snapped up like hotcakes.

Buy your tickets now.

When APW and Lowe House Events introduced Yay New York: The Reception For Marriage Equality, featuring two marriages and a raging dance party, y’all wanted to get involved… no matter where you were located. So we promised you tote bags. And not just tote bags, but stylish marriage equality tote bags with proceeds going toward getting the couples hitched. So today we’re giving you those stylish tote bags and a raffle entry for Hart & Sol Photo with your party ticket purchase. Because let’s be clear: we can’t throw this event without your help.

Yay New York Tote Bags

First up: we’re unveiling the bags. They’re on sale for $20 through Big Cartel, and buying one is what will make Yay New York happen! (Please note, for those of you attending the event, we’ll have special limited edition tote bags for sale there).

Buy a Yay New York Tote Bag Before They’re Gone!

And now, the amazing bags themselves, designed by And Kathleen, printed by Yes Press in Oakland, with photos by Emily Takes Photos (I’m modeling):

You can put your knitting in it and go thrift store shopping (these are two things I do in real life, though not always at the same time). Please note the sneaky apracticalweddding.com at the bottom of the bag. We did that to make it an APW secret handshake. “Oh, you know. Ah, as do I.”

You can use it to go grocery shopping. Actually, this picture is a little bit of a lie, because I’m not allowed to go grocery shopping without a special dispensation from my husband. When I go, I always buy: Canned Goods (in case of emergency) and whatever I’m hungry for (usually something like: peaches, kale, chocolate, hamburger meat, Prosecco). But if you’re allowed to grocery shop without a partner dispensation, you could take your Yay New York bag.

You can use it to carry around your laptop, a notebook and some magazines. This is the most realistic depiction of what I will do with my bag. As a self-employed person I consider my tote bag to be my mobile office. Now it will be my mobile marriage equality office.

And, my personal favorite. You can fill it full of champagne and go drinking. I think you should do this. But first you’re going to have to buy the bag, you see.

Buy The Bag. (It’s just $20, and it’s super pretty.)

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Ticket Deal: With Hart & Sol Photo

Did you buy your tickets last week? Great, we’re kissing you on the mouth because we love you. Have you not bought your tickets yet? Have you not told your friends in New York about the party? Read on…

Hart & Sol Photo (APW sponsors) are giving away a free two hour photo session. You can use it for anything you want: engagement pictures, Christmas card pictures, boudoir pictures, maternity pictures, pet pictures, you name it. Plus, the session is transferable, so if you’re not in the NYC area, you can give it to someone who is. Here is how you enter:

  • If you bought a ticket last week, you’re already entered in the drawing.
  • If you buy a ticket before next Wednesday, you’ll also be entered in the drawing.
  • But there is more: for every friend that you refer to buy a ticket before next Wednesday (they need to list your name in the “who referred you” section of the ticket form), you’re also entered to win the Hart & Sol Photo session. If you can’t come, but you tell all your friends in NYC to come? You totally could win.

Team Practical? Let’s do this thing!

Photos by Emily Takes Photos, bracelet by APW Sponsor Bario-Neal Jewelry (I wear it all the time).

As you all know, APW is helping two couples get hitched in New York and then throwing a dance-your-face-off fundraiser for LAMBDA Legal… next week. Time flies! We’ll have more details on the party later this week, but today we wanted to announce the APW-book club style parties that are happening all over the country this weekend. It’s just like the regular book clubs, except with no book to read—instead, there is booze and cake to consume and money to be raised for LAMBDA Legal. Hurrah! Long time reader Cindy of Crafty Broads is organizing the parties and has an update. In the meantime, we noticed that some long standing book clubs are not celebrating (cough, San Francisco, Boston, Dallas, Baltimore, cough). If you’d like to join up and drink booze in honor of gay marriage, go to APW’s Facebook page, and start a conversation (we’ve even started threads for you…). And now, Cindy:

Hello Marriage Equality Lovers!

A few weeks back, Meg mentioned that I was helping put together some regional parties for those of us who can’t get to New York, but are 110% there in spirit. Well, a few of us have been plotting away in our own little corners of the universe, and we are ready to kick off the big shebang. We’re planning cakes, champagne popping, and of course the company of fine APW readers like you.

So, ditch your plan to eat pizza on the couch this weekend, pull out your sparkle dress, and get yourself to a party near you!

SEATTLE, WASHINGTON: Bec of Blush Celebrations is planning a party in the Capital Hill area, and there will be Rainbow Cupcakes! Rainbow Cupcakes, you guys, can’t miss that! Saturday, August 20th at 7pm. RSVP here.

BURLINGTON, VERMONT: Trisha totally wants to party with you, but she’s wondering where all the Vermont APW readers are. Go hang with her on Saturday, August 20th at 7pm. RSVP here.

WASHINGTON, D.C.: Rachel a.k.a. Dday is pulling out all the stops. She booked a private party room at the Dupont Italian Kitchen for Sunday, August 21st at 3pm. RSVP here.

HOUSTON, TEXAS: Hey, Houston! Rachelle has the perfect spot (with cake by the slice!) all picked out, and she wants you to be her date. Email rachelle DOT rawlings AT gmail DOT com.

RALEIGH-DURHAM, NORTH CAROLINA: Caitlin is inviting you to join her in Chapel Hill on Saturday, August 20th at 7pm. RSVP here.

PORTLAND, OREGON: Kristin is game for celebrating, but everyone seems to be busy. If you’re not and you want to party, email her and figure it out: kristingraybeal AT hotmail DOT com

CHICAGO, ILLINOIS: Finally, if you’re in the Windy City, I invite you to my place on Saturday, August 20th at 7pm. I am making cake and I want you to eat it. RSVP here.

No party near you? Grab a few friends and make one! Road trip to the nearest one! Or do the most important thing—donate to Lambda Legal during next week’s APW Fundraising drive, so we can be celebrating legal marriages for everyone across the country really, really soon.