Q:Hey APW,
I know asking about feminist porn isn’t technically a “wedding planning” question but I figured this might be something you all know more about than I do. So here’s the deal: I’ve historically read erotic books, but video never seemed intriguing. Porn seemed too… obvious, somehow.
But my tastes have changed. Inspired by curiosity, I’ve recently stumbled on some clips that I enjoy. I want to get a membership to a site (and, you know, not get caught downloading things to my computer). But how do I figure out who to support? What’s the best ethical porn out there? I don’t mind (in fact, I kind of enjoy) a bit of rougher play, but the idea of watching anyone do an act they didn’t consent worries me. Where do I find guilt-free, feminist porn? What do you all watch? What should I be looking out for? Does it even exist?
Thanks so much APW. There’s nobody else I’d want to ask.
APW, Now this is some #realtalk. What is feminist porn, and how the hell do you find it? what sites do you visit? Whatever happened to a good old steamy romance novel? Feel free to log out and respond as anon, because we’re getting personal.
If you want the APW community’s two cents, send it to QUESTIONS AT APRACTICALWEDDING DOT COM, and we’ll do our best to crowdsource you some answers!
